Allow yourself to change. In life, sometimes we become the naysayer/hater that we claim is out to get us, when we furiously post about it online. Sometimes, the mindsets and philosophies that we grew up with are the very roadblocks stopping us from getting to the place God desires us to be. If this is you, it may be time to call a full time-out, discover where the opposition is actually coming from, and draw up a new game-plan. Let go of those old plays and strategies, they aren't working!
A lot of times we know exactly which direction we should go, or what turn we should make, but we fear the opinion of others so much that we continue to do things the way we always have. Fear has been my opponent for my entire life. There have been great losses, but there have also been great victories. Those victories have usually come from me stepping outside of my comfort zone and listening to the small still voice in my heart, despite how afraid I was. Change is hard. Change can be scary. But remember, change is possible.